Update on Rob for 8/25 at 9 PM by Rob's Dad
Today was a difficult day for me. Rob is "status quo" but I had hoped for so much more. They have told us that he will be on the respirator for a few more days and that he needs the heart pump for a day or two more to help him gain his strength. I start to expect too much and it is hard on all of us as our expectations are not met. I need to be constantly grateful for what is happening and the great care he is getting.
We are concerned about the infection they diagnosed. They took a sample of tissue from his heart during surgery and cultured it. They are checking various vitals every 10 minutes and will take a more aggressive approach if it is indicated. He had a specialist just for the infection review his case and is now supervising his care in that area.
It is so difficult to see him so tired that he cannot keep his eyes open - but it is exciting to see him respond in the little ways that he does. He is really able to open his eyes when he knows Marla is in the room. Love has such a healing power. We are so grateful to Marla and the great wife and friend she is to Rob. I remember seeing Rob at the office after the first time he saw Marla. He was smiling so much I asked him if he had a piece of candy in his pocket. He said no, and then said, "I just saw the most beautiful girl in the world, and I talked to her!" Right now he cannot talk to her but he can still smile like he's got candy in his pocket (hospital gown).
We appreciate all your thoughts and prayers.
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